Don’t Tell The Story
That's the best advice I've heard all week...don't tell the story. During channeling over the weekend, our non-physical friends were talking about manifestation, again- it's one of their favorite subjects. And they said that my friend and I would manifest what we want much more quickly if we stopped with all the negative thoughts, and with complaining about the aspects of our lives that we don't like. For example, they said that if my friend gets to work and someone asks her how she is, even if it took her an extra hour in traffic to get there, she may want to just say "fine", and move on. Or, say: "Well, I was an hour in traffic, but it was fine." On to the next thing, which would be letting it go and creating a glorious day for herself. They further advised that she and I email and text each other frequently, reminding each other not to "tell the story."...
Who We Really Are
Recently, I was at a charity event where there was a local band whose members were from my high school. There were people there that I literally hadn't seen since I was fourteen years old. I didn't know how I felt about it, at first. Normally it is not the kind of thing that I'd attend. I've always been of the school of thought that says: "If I'd wanted to see someone, I would have kept in touch."...
Make Finding a Partner Fun and Easy
My new partner and I like to play this game. You may play this one too. He says: "What are you thinking about?" during one of those rare moments when I am not actually talking, and I tell him. Which prompts me to ask him the same question. I like it. If you haven't tried it, I suggest that you do. It's a good way to have fun and learn....
What I’ve Always Wanted
Here's some exciting news: I've given myself an early Christmas present, and it's just what I've always wanted! And I didn't even know I was going to give it to myself! And, for most of my life, I didn't even know I wanted it. And I do. Okay, I'll stop being such a tease (it's not my nature, really; generally, I put out ;)). Here it is- I am in a poly relationship! (From Wikipedia: Polyamory (from Greek πολύ [poly], meaning "many" or "several", and Latin amor, "love") is the practice, desire, or acceptance of having more than one intimate relationship at a time with the knowledge and consent of everyone involved.)...
Still on the Self-Compassion Kick
I do want to share with you more of the self-compassion techniques that I referenced in my last blog, "Self-Compassion is the Antidote to Suffering". As you may have surmised, I was often times in a desperate state during the time period I am now choosing to call my "dark night of the soul". I had the benefit of having a very dear friend channel for me when I felt like I just couldn't take it anymore and needed some guidance from non-physical....
Self-Compassion is the Antidote to Suffering
As I mentioned in my blog last week, titled "I Love", I have been on a long, amazing journey of growth and discovery. Probably the most important thing I learned in the past eighteen months: the difference between pain and suffering is self-compassion.
One of the best definitions I have ever found for the word pain was written by Kahlil Gibran in "The Prophet". My college boyfriend gave me that book quite a few (!) years ago, and I still think of this quote sometimes: "Your pain is the breaking of the shell that encloses your understanding." We all know when we are in pain, but have we ever really thought about what pain is? I have felt a lot of pain during this process. Much of the time I turned it into suffering through the way that I chose to think about it....
Going On and On About Blow Jobs
Recently, in a blog about blow jobs, I made the statement “I could go on and on about blow jobs”. The good news is, I’ve decided to! I’d noticed that after I finished the blog, I kept thinking about blow jobs (which, I have to admit I’m prone to doing anyway), and I figured it meant I had more to say about blow jobs. So here goes....
I Love
I have been on such an amazing journey since I made the decision to fulfill my life purpose here on the planet. Many times over the last year and a half, I would have said amazingly horrible journey. Today I am in a place of saying amazingly perfect. It all came to a culmination for me last night as I was driving to my friend's house, and sobbing all the way there. Mostly, they were tears of joy. With a bit of fear harmonizing in occasionally....
How to Give a Good Blow Job
Apparently I am feeling very sexual lately; I've noticed that something like my last ten blogs are about vulvas, pleasuring of vulvas, blow jobs, and hand jobs. Oh, well, I guess I'm on a roll. Let's talk blow jobs to the point of being an artist- an artist of blow jobs. (Really, we ought to change the name. Calling it a "job" gives it a bad rap.) Below are my personal tips for giving an amazing blow job (for lack of a better term- now taking suggestions of what else to call it)....