by Maria Merloni | Apr 17, 2026 | S.E.X.
Most people assume stripping is degrading for women. My experience was the opposite. Years ago, when I was already working as a therapist, I became a stripper in order to pay for life coaching school. What I discovered surprised me — and it completely changed the way...
by Maria Merloni | Apr 10, 2026 | Relationships, S.E.X.
Many people, especially women, feel guilty for having pleasure. Here’s the problem with that. Pleasure, for a woman, is the main way her entire nervous system gets regulated. And yet, we’ve been socialized to think that we must only give to others, and...
by Maria Merloni | Mar 24, 2026 | S.E.X.
There’s a big misconception about orgasms, especially orgasms in a yoni-owning person’s body, although this can happen with anyone, and it even ties into conversations around Orgasms and Sleep and how our bodies respond to routine and pleasure. It has to do with...
by Maria Merloni | Mar 17, 2026 | Relationships, S.E.X.
With so much in the news about girls and women being sexually abused and trafficked, I’ve been doing a lot of reflecting. What I am thinking about right now is not just the present—but the past. My own past. At the time, I didn’t label my early experiences as harmful....
by Maria Merloni | Jan 30, 2026 | S.E.X.
It was on my birthday last week. The day I turned 60, and experienced a Fat Squirting Orgasm that made it unforgettable.I keep telling people what a great birthday I had, that it was the best birthday I can remember. And yes, I got to swim twenty laps at the pool...
by Maria Merloni | Dec 5, 2025 | S.E.X.
The way most of us learned to come is what I would call the masculine way, rather than learning how to come like a woman. In fact, most heterosexual sex, at least in this culture, is done in a very masculine way. The masculine is goal-oriented. It is direct. It gets...
