About Me

Some people think I’m all about sex.

And while sex truly is one of my favorite things on the planet, what I’m really all about is helping you fall more deeply in love with yourself.

Because when you love yourself—gently, honestly, compassionately—everything shifts.
Your confidence grows.
Your relationships change.
Your pleasure deepens.
And your connection to Spirit becomes more alive and real.

This isn’t a theory for me. It’s been my life’s work—and my life’s journey.

I Get It, Because I’ve Been There

I know what it’s like to know you’re amazing, capable, and sexy…
and still have that voice in your head whispering that you’re not enough.

That voice can keep you playing small, settling, or feeling just out of reach of the love, intimacy, and fulfillment you want.

I also know what it’s like to be in relationships that don’t work the way you hoped they would.

Communication feels hard.
You’re exhausted from carrying too much.
The spark has dimmed—or disappeared altogether.
And you miss feeling desired, cherished, and met as the sensual, alive woman you know you are inside.

Here’s something I’ve learned over the years:
Our relationship with ourselves sets the tone for every other relationship in our lives.

My Own Path to Self-Love

For many years, self-love did not come easily to me. I struggled with depression and, at times, even suicidal thoughts. Healing wasn’t quick or linear—but it was real.

Learning self-compassion, reconnecting with my body, embracing my sexuality, and stepping into my feminine essence changed everything. Not overnight—but profoundly.

That journey took me from painful relationships and self-doubt to a life filled with love, pleasure, meaning, and connection. And it’s why I deeply trust that change is possible for you, too—often much more quickly when you have skilled, loving support.

How I Work (and Why It’s Different)

I’ve been in private practice for over 20 years, working with hundreds of individuals, couples, and multi-partner relationships of all kinds.

Alongside my clinical and coaching background, I’ve also worked extensively as a tantra educator, supporting individuals, couples, and throuples in reclaiming their birthright to free sexual expression, deeply fulfilling relationships, and an intimate connection with the Divine.

My work blends:

Psychology and trauma-informed care

Tantra and sacred sexuality

Relationship and communication skills

Spiritual awareness—without dogma or pressure

I meet you exactly where you are. I don’t push beliefs, identities, or paths. I’ve worked successfully with everyone from atheists and agnostics to deeply spiritual and religious clients. What matters most to me is that you feel safe, seen, respected, and supported.

And Yes… There’s Fun Here Too

One important thing you should know about me:
I’m a lover of fun.

I believe healing and transformation don’t have to be heavy or grim. Even when we’re doing deep, meaningful work, there’s room for laughter, pleasure, curiosity, and joy. In fact, those qualities often make the work more powerful.

If you’re open to growth that feels alive and human—not clinical or cold—you’re probably in the right place.

About That Sex Thing 😉

Remember how I said people think I’m all about sex?

That part is kind of true.

I have an intuitive understanding of sexuality and a unique ability to create sacred, grounded spaces where people feel comfortable exploring the intersection of Sex and Spirit—without shame, pressure, or judgment.

Sexuality isn’t something to fix. It’s something to listen to, honor, and allow to evolve.

An Invitation

If you’re ready to fall more deeply in love with yourself…
If you want more confidence, connection, pleasure, and authenticity in your life and relationships…
If you’re curious about what’s possible when sexuality, spirituality, and self-love come together…

I invite you to schedule a free 60-minute Connection Call.

Let’s talk. I’d love to meet you.

My Background & Experience

For those who like the details:

• Bachelor’s Degree, Westfield State College (now WSU), Westfield, MA
• Master’s Degree in Clinical Social Work, Simmons College, Boston, MA
• Ten years serving homeless populations at MA shelters, and on the streets
• Certified Life Coach through the Hendricks Institute (Drs. Gay & Kathlyn Hendricks), Ojai, CA
• Certified in Gentle Reprocessing (trauma treatment similar to EMDR)
• Over 20 years in private practice, working with individuals, couples, and multi-partner relationships worldwide
• Tantra educator specializing in sacred sexuality, conscious relationships, and spiritual connection
• Extensive experience with LGBTQ+, polyamorous, kinky/BDSM, asexual, and sexually diverse communities
• Member of the National Coalition for Sexual Freedom
• Former co-host of The Booty Doctors radio show
• Writer for Aspire Magazine, YourTango, Dear Cupid, and Blog Talk Radio
• Multiple appearances as a sex and relationship expert on the Oprah Winfrey Network’s “Snapped”

With decades of experience and a very human heart, I’ve helped hundreds of people create relationships—with themselves, their partners, and the Divine—that feel loving, alive, and true.