Can Loss Be A Gift?

Last Saturday I was about to give a 3 hour Sacred Lingam Massage workshop, so I went to get my nails and toes done beforehand.  While I was waiting for my nails to dry, I got a phone call from a number right in town.  I knew there were no workshop participants from...

How To Find Safety

Today, as we here in America are all still living in the place of limbo with the future of our country, I realize that what’s most important to talk about is how to be okay with that.  Or rather, not only how to be okay with being in limbo, but also how to...

Soul S.E.X.

There’s no doubt that, as human beings, sex can and often does feel terrific- whether it’s masturbation, or sex with partners. In fact, it feels so good that often we tend to think it’s enough. What more could we want? Human touch, pleasure,...

Ah, Clarity

I’d been confused for so many years. I really did believe in “happily ever after”- of course, knowing that I wasn’t going to get a Fairy Godmother and magic shoes. (Well, I mean, technically I could, knowing me, but…you know what I mean.)...

Pretty Bows

There’s a Blood Moon eclipse on my birthday, this Monday the 21st. It is connected to the rising of the Divine Feminine in this new era. (The word is, if you’ve been feeling a little funky lately, you’re not alone. A lot of us more sensitive people...