Going On and On About Blow Jobs
Recently, in a blog about blow jobs, I made the statement “I could go on and on about blow jobs”. The good news is, I’ve decided to! I’d noticed that after I finished the blog, I kept thinking about blow jobs (which, I have to admit I’m prone to doing anyway), and I figured it meant I had more to say about blow jobs. So here goes.
- Do get feedback about what your partner likes and doesn’t like. Chances are, he’s going to like just about all of it- thus the phrase “there’s no such thing as a bad blow job”. However, you know all the advice I gave you last week about blow jobs? Well, not every guy is going to like every one of the things I mentioned. And, he’ll definitely like some things more than others. And, he may like some things that you’ll be very surprised about- for instance, I once knew a guy that enjoyed having his cock bitten- and rather vigorously, too! (Don’t judge.)
- Another fun bj technique for you: Once your partner’s cock is hard, try this. Angle your body/head so that you are able to come at it from a side angle. Think of it like a harmonica for a moment. Don’t laugh, I’m serious. Hold it lightly on one side, with all of your fingers placed on top and your thumbs gently supporting it from below. Now slide your mouth (with tongue) back and forth over the other side. Try humming, even, while you’re doing it and see how that feels for him.
- Switch it up a bit. Just because he loves a certain thing you are doing doesn’t mean he wants you to keep doing the same thing continuously until he comes. Change angles, change techniques, completely stop touching his cock from time to time. Suggestions for what to do then: lick, nibble, and suck his inner thighs, belly button, or that little spot just inside his hip bone; bring your mouth up to his momentarily and give him a passionate kiss, then return to what you really want to have your mouth on.
- And when I say switch up your moves, I don’t mean every two to three seconds like that aerobics instructor I was taking a class with the other day. (Holy shit, she was brutal!). I mean, get in a groove with something, and then use your intuition. When you feel inspired to do something else, do it. Then go back to his favorites when you feel inspired to do that again.
- If you really tune in to your man, you can almost get to the point of knowing exactly what he desires next, and next, and next and… this can be much fun for both of you!
- Consider committing to having a day each week dedicated to oral sex. Think about it, how often do you have oral sex as a complete act in and of itself, all the way to orgasm, as opposed to just using it for foreplay? I know this hilarious couple who says “Sunday is oral day”. They’re not entirely kidding, and neither am I!
I look forward to hearing your input about blow jobs and what you like, don’t like, tried, never tried but want to ….the possibilities are endless!