Feeling Disconnected? Timing Is Everything!
I'll save the topic of timing of sex for another day... For today, however, you know those times when you're upset about something to do with your relationship and you want to talk about it, in hopes that you'll feel better? (Or, maybe you're the type that...
True Or False: Relationships Are A Lot Of Work.
As I was saying....If you want to be satisfied and happy in your relationship, you will need to commit some time and attention to it. I know you may think you are committing time to your relationship. Maybe you spend almost every night...
What Are You Putting Up With?
...years ago, and the workshop leader asked the same question I just asked you: "What are you putting up with?" Now, she meant it in a general sense, as in 'What are you putting up with in your life?'. While I think that is a valuable question to ask, I am thinking...
Are You Allowing Yourself To Receive?
That was a pretty big jump for me, especially since I was riding on a lot of long hills in Rockport, whereas at home the hills are fairly minor. And, oh yeah, it was in the middle of a heatwave! I was EXHAUSTED going up some of those hills, despite the...
Do You Know How To Pronounce This Word?
Back to my taking the Human Sexuality course in college....my friend and I kept chuckling to ourselves about how the professor didn't know how to pronounce the word "clitoris". (He was pronouncing it like this: "kli tr uhs", with the emphasis on the...
Are You in a Sexless Relationship?
Are YOU in a sexless marriage or relationship? Experts define "sexless" as having sex less than once a month, or no more than 10x a year. There are a number of common reasons that couples' relationships can become sexless over time. Some of the...
This Rolling Process
Yesterday, I went jogging. This may not seem like a big deal to you, but to me it was huge. For the past 2.5 years, I’ve been dealing with varying amounts of fatigue and other symptoms due to chronic illness. I used to be a regular...
What’s Best for Me
Last winter, a good friend's grandmother died. I knew she was devastated. This woman had been more like her "mother" than her actual mother, and she was the Matriarch of the family. (For the sake of privacy, I will call my friend "Susan" and her grandmother "Lily".) I...
Soul S.E.X.
There's no doubt that, as human beings, sex can and often does feel terrific- whether it's masturbation, or sex with partners. In fact, it feels so good that often we tend to think it's enough. What more could we want? Human touch, pleasure, endorphins...what's not to...
Ah, Clarity
I'd been confused for so many years. I really did believe in "happily ever after"- of course, knowing that I wasn't going to get a Fairy Godmother and magic shoes. (Well, I mean, technically I could, knowing me, but...you know what I mean.) I even knew couples that...