Equality Rising Beyond Patriarchy
Hello Friend,You know how I'm always talking about dismantling the patriarchy? Well, if you don’t know, I definitely am. It’s one of those topics that lives close to my heart because it shapes so much of how women experience the world. Some feminists say things are...
I Find a Partner Without Trying
Have I Ever Told You This Story? When clients tell me they want to find a partner, I don't advise that they go on dating sites. It's simply not necessary. Here's how I find my "person" and how being in circulation in the world is essential, but not being on dating...
I Knew It: Patriarchy and Sacred Sexuality
Many women instinctively know that something deeper blocks their full sexual expression — and science now agrees. From Layla Martin’s teachings on sacred sexuality to the impact of patriarchy on feminine energy, this reflection explores how trauma and societal conditioning disconnect women from their life force. Yet, healing is possible. Through energy work, meditation, and yoni practices, women can restore their natural flow, safety, and self-love.
Can You Believe This?
I know I've mentioned this before, AND I continue to realize how amazing it is that my OB/GYN, who has likely examined many THOUSANDS of yonis, was impressed with how juicy my 59-year-old yoni is! Let me back up. I've been doing a daily self yoni massage on and off...
How to Enjoy Your Life More
Whenever something comes up for me, I also know that if I share it, others can benefit from it too. I know many of us tend to think we're unique, including me. The fact is, I know that if I'm going through a "thing," there's a very high chance I'm not the only one....
What You May Not Know About ED
ED, or erectile dysfunction, is the most common reason that lingam-owning individuals contact me for help. First, I want to emphasize this point: almost every person with a lingam will experience erectile dysfunction at some point in their life. Some common causes are...
Science Backs This Up!
Last week I went in to have my annual pelvic exam. Sexy, right? Well, it LEADS to something really sexy, so read on! My practitioner and I had been talking about hormones and how things are working in my yoni. When she started the internal exam, she commented on how...
Do Yonis Smell Bad?
When I was in college I had one boyfriend, who had experience with very few other yonis, who told me that women have two kinds of yonis: the kind that smell horrible and the kind that don't. And he mentioned numerous times that he was so glad that I had the "good"...
The Secret to Riding the Waves
I have a long-time client that may have had the worst life I've ever heard of. And she is one of the most courageous people I know. If she were here, she would probably tell you I saved her life. But I know the truth: She saved her life. She came up with a phrase to...
What’s Better Than Loving Your Body? I’ll Tell You!
I’ve been re-learning some things about my body. I suppose I knew these things once upon a time when I was too young to have had any negative thoughts about my body, when I was too young to have been exposed to the tremendous amount of bad "advice" that our society...