Hello Friend,
Don’t you love it when science proves something that you already “knew”? The past couple of days I’ve been listening to a replay of a master class given by Layla Martin. In case you don’t know who she is, she’s one of the world’s leading experts on sacred sexuality. And she focuses on women — helping them reconnect with their bodies and reclaim their feminine power through sacred sexuality practices.
The Patriarchy and Women’s Suppressed Power
I have had a knowing for years now that the reason women are not showing up in the world as the amazing sexual superstars that they are naturally wired to be is because of the patriarchy.
I’m not even talking about how some women have been sexually abused as children or adults. Therefore, they have some sexual difficulties. That is obvious.
But Layla goes into this scientific explanation of how actually even being raised in modern society is toxic to women’s sexual health.
The Science Behind Sacred Sexuality and Suppressed Energy
Women then cut off part of their life force energy, which IS their sexual energy. This is the REAL reason for the frequent lack of libido in women, the “orgasm gap”, and the painful intercourse that makes them want to avoid sex altogether.
There is too much trauma in the body to allow women to be able to feel safe in their own bodies, in most cases.
Healing Is a Journey
She goes on to say how this ball of stuck energy, which is in the abdominal region of the woman’s body, even gives her that sense of low self esteem — that self loathing that so many women experience.
It’s a literal physiological phenomenon.
Although I have been working on reducing my stuck ball of energy for quite a few years now, I cannot say that I’ve arrived at complete safety and self love.
It’s a process. That kind of total safety and freedom gets built slowly, brick by brick.
Again, I want to be clear that I am not blaming men for this. This is due to the patriarchy, which is a systemic, worldwide paradigm that values men over women for the last five to six thousand years.
It’s about power, or lack of power. The world has adopted it.
Restoring Energy and Reconnection
The good news is that this stuck energy CAN be fully released. The body can be healed. The natural flow of life force energy can be restored.
Here are a couple of the best ways I have found to do that:
- Dr. Joe Dispenza’s “Blessing of the Energy Centers” meditation. I am back to practicing it every day. I can FEEL its healing effects every time I do it.
- Yoni massage. As you may know, I am a big proponent and practitioner of self yoni massage. It’s also true that receiving yoni massage from others can release stuck energy in the body too.
I am still working on my home study course for yoni-owning folks. It includes all the 411 on the patriarchy, sacred sexuality, self yoni massage, and even partnered yoni massage.
It’s taking longer than I thought, but its time WILL come.
In the meantime, if you’re a woman who resonates with this, please feel free to reach out for a free consultation.
Published Date: 10/29/2025