Advanced Nippling

Yep, I’ve done it again.  Made up my own word.  Nippling (v.)- the art of providing physical pleasure via the nipples. It occurs to me that the nipple is an under-appreciated aspect of the human anatomy, when it come to sexual pleasure.  Mostly in women, yet...

The Wisdom of Kink

In and out of my professional life, one of the most common couples’ issues I see is that one or both partners lose interest in sex. However, I cannot think of one KINKY couple I’ve encountered for whom lack of sexual desire is an issue. So, what’s...

The Sacredness of Kink

Yes, you heard me right.  Kink is sacred. Well, let me back up a minute.  For those of you who don’t know what “kink” is.  Think “Fifty Shades of Grey”, minus the abusive, traumatized sociopath.  Okay- bad example ;).  Think BDSM...

Life is a Win-Win

I have long suspected that when something is for one person’s highest good, it is for the other person’s highest good as well.  (Even though, admittedly, it doesn’t always seem like that.) Now I am sure. The other day I was doing sacred yoni massage...

Get Your Sexy On

It has come to my attention, over and over again, that we as a species are not having all that much sex.  Worldwide, about 2/3 of us are having sex once a week.  In the U.S., that number is barely over half.  Not to mention that, for most people (asexual and...

A Fucking Good Mood

I am in a really fucking good mood right now.  I mean REALLY fucking good!  The kind of mood where I feel an abundance of energy coursing through my body, I feel love for myself and everyone else, and I am having one creative, fun thought after another.  Yeah, that...