How Kink Changed my Life

I’m being a little facetious here, but not really.  I mean, yes, adding a dimension of kink into my life several years ago as a regular thing has  most definitely improved the quality of my life.  I’ve decided it is an essential element for me to be truly...

The Intimacy of Kink

In recent discussions, with both myself 😉 and others, I’ve noticed that there’s a general assumption that lovemaking is lovemaking and kink is kink. There’s an implication that real intimacy, real connection, only happens with vanilla sex: that...

The Truth About Me

Okay, are you ready for the shocking truth?  I love sex.  I love S.E.X. I understand that some of you may be saying, “duh, I already knew that” right now…and yes, it’s true that I have not been hiding that fact about myself.  AND, believe it or...

When Shiva Made Love to Me

I was awakened in the early morning At 5:00 a.m. to be exact By Shiva embodied His hand on my lower back, firmly Already sending life force energy into my pulsing body Receiving Suddenly so awake, all of my senses heightened He continued to place just one hand on me,...

My Declaration

I notice I get a little prickly when people seem to be objectifying me, especially as it relates to my business.  Okay, yes, the name of my business is Synergistic Energy Exchange (S.E.X.), and I happen to be someone whom a lot of people find sexy and pretty.  And-...

How Do I Love Thee?

Oh Slutcracker, Slutcracker, how do I love thee? Let me count the ways. I went to see the Slutcracker last weekend.  I believe it was my third year in a row.  I can’t wait ’til it comes out again next year. (For those of you not in the know: via...