Life is a Win-Win

I have long suspected that when something is for one person’s highest good, it is for the other person’s highest good as well.  (Even though, admittedly, it doesn’t always seem like that.)

Now I am sure.

The other day I was doing sacred yoni massage on a woman.  We were really going all out.  I burned some Nag Champa, used my pendulum to clear myself, then we meditated together for a good while.  All of this created sacred space.  Next, I gave her a vulva massage and moved slowly on to the G-spot massage part.  We had decided to call this her “sexual awakening” instead of simply “yoni massage” because we were trying some new things I had never done to anyone- in THIS lifetime anyway.  😉 (I often get the sense I am never learning anything new with sacred sex, just remembering.)

This was not a “quickie”.  I think all told it was like an hour and a half.  As I was massaging, I was aware of breathing in Life Force Energy in long, deep breaths.  At one point I made a conscious decision to see how much L.F.E.  (abbreviation I just made up- aka, unconditional love) I could open up to and circulate through my body, all the while putting that unconditional love into my partner’s yoni.  Well, I’ll tell you what, THAT was a damn good idea!  I began to literally vibrate with it.  After a while I could feel the vibration all the way to the tips of my fingers as I continued to massage her G-spot.  Plus, the longer I breathed that way, the more yummy my whole body was feeling.  My “inner flute” (chakras from base to spine) was becoming more and more filled with Life Force Energy, which is in effect sexual energy.  There IS no difference.

This was already a win-win, and it didn’t stop there.  Eventually, not only did she have the “longest orgasm of <her> life” AND a full-body orgasm, I DID TOO!

And THEN I got it, this thing that I’ve heard others talk about before.  I was never quite sure if they meant it literally or metaphorically, this concept of living life in a constant (or at least frequent, possible, on-demand) state of orgasm.  Oh yeah, it’s real.  My chakras were just wide open, blown out almost.  The reward for becoming so open to Source energy is to be in a prolonged state of bliss.  This was not going to go away in like thirty seconds like any old GENITAL orgasm.  And I used to think my friends were crazy when they said they preferred full-body orgasms to genital ones.  Ha!

And I thought it was good the first time this win-win thing occurred to me, like when I asked to change the time of my plans with a friend and it turned out not only was it fine with her, it was actually better for her as well.  That was just the tip of the iceberg.  Now I see, there is no limit to the win-win.  Imagine the implications!