I Love You, But…

You know that phrase, “I love you, but I’m not in love with you?” That phrase is often used as a preface to dumping someone.  However, if you’ve been with your partner for more than say six months, it’s completely normal to feel that way.  After all these years, I...

What’s Your Choice, Love or Fear?

In your relationships, do you choose love or fear?  There are many circumstances under which this simple question throughout the day can make a tremendous difference in the quality of your relationship. You may be in a marriage, a monogamous relationship, or an open...

On Sexual Polarity

I know this couple who in many ways is not an unusual couple at all.  She is a woman, yet she has a lot of masculine energy. He is a man, yet in many ways has a lot of feminine energy.  He would have more masculine energy, he used to, until he realized that they...

One Story

A friend of mine had a rift in her marriage last year.  This was not an unusual story.  It may sound familiar to you, from your own life, or someone you know.  She had been married for a considerable number of years.  She noticed, several years before, that not only...

When It’s Over

Are you ready?  I’m going to share with you one of  the greatest myths of our times: We are meant to fall in love once, and stay together with that person for the rest of our lives.  Haven’t we all been told that?  Haven’t we all been told that true love is forever? ...

Cougars and Such

The topic of cougars keeps coming up in my life.  Some have said I am a cougar, although technically, I don’t meet the full definition.   But cougars are not just women, either.   There are “man-cougars” too.  Let’s start with the female...