Relationship Maintenance Practice

Okay, I know that some of you are going to think this is unrealistic. Yet I say it in total seriousness. If you want to have an amazing relationship, you have to put the time in. That’s not the “unrealistic” part. Here’s what I recommend: As...

Why Do We Wait Until it’s Too Late?

I want to share that my father is dying. I am in Hawaii for three months, and shortly before I left he went into the hospital. I knew there was only a very slim chance that he would survive (now there’s none). The night before I left, I went to visit him in...

Bees And Wedding Preparations

Love — that’s the surprising connection between bees and wedding preparations. Let me explain. I am getting married in about a month — on August 22nd, which my friend, a numerologist, assures me is an excellent day for marriage! Initially, the planning felt a bit...

How To Make Life Less “Sticky”

In our house, we like to use a particular kind of handmade lemon soap.  The other day I was in the shower and I noticed the soap was getting very thin- like, it was time for another bar soon.  And when I got out of the shower I actually remembered to put a...

Meetup Is Not A Dating Site

As you probably know, most of my newsletters are all warm and sunshine-y.  This one – not so much. I want to be kind, I always want to be kind.  AND, I want to publicly say that in my experience it is not uncommon for someone to “hit...