I Have to Tell You, Part II

For those of you who have been waiting with bated breath 😛 for part II of my last blog, here it is: The updates about my primary relationship are the following. 1.  No sooner had I mentioned that no one ever “arrives” at any particular place in life, (this...

I Have to Tell You

I know many of you have been reading my blogs from the beginning of my primary relationship, which started over a year ago now, and were privy to every excruciating detail of the struggles I have had.  It’s my first real polyamorous relationship, and I/we had...

A New Kind of Hangover

Typically, people think of hangovers as the thing that they get after drinking too much alcohol the night before.  While of course that is a hangover, I have recently coined another new term.  I call it the “monogamy hangover”.  That is the thing that...

My Boyfriend’s Not a Shmuck…

…and poly doesn’t suck. It has come to my attention that a number of you, after reading my blogs in which I describe all the most painful moments of my primary relationship, have come to the conclusion that- well, basically, that my primary partner is a...

He Slept With “Jane”…

…and I am fine. Some of you who have been following my blog right along already know who Jane is.  She’s the woman I gave the fake name to that my partner did some withholding about.  That triggered the f*ck out of me for various reasons in the past....

My Latest Adventure, Part III

When I left off, my partner and I had just agreed to wait to talk again, as we had both been really angry the night before.  The next morning we were both feeling ready to talk again.  We created sacred space, and got to it.  I won’t bore you with the details,...