Trapped in the Car…

So, as promised, I am continuing today with “the rest of the story”, aka what happened after my boyfriend and I decided to move in together.  It was the end of 2013, and as I was still in my coaching program (My Sacred Yes) at the time, I had just gotten...

The REST of the Story

Before you start thinking that I am Paul Harvey (probably no chance of that, huh?), allow me to explain.  You may have noticed, I was telling a story for a little over a year.  It was the story of my life as a polyamorous person, in a poly relationship for the first...

The Love Lie

I want to address a topic that has been floating around in my head for years.  It is this idea that if we “love” someone, then that is it.  It means we are to marry that person and then stay- happily ever after- with them for the rest of our lives.  And we...

We Are “Those People”

The other night my partner and I decided to get dressed up and go out to dinner.  There was a new restaurant we wanted to check out.  We were seated in a lovely area at a table for four, with two seats on a bench and two at chairs across from the bench.  At first, I...

Naked Cuddling

You know how people have “staples” in their diet?  Well, I have recently re-learned the benefits of what I highly, highly recommend as a daily staple in your relationship:  naked cuddling. First, although it may sound self-explanatory, allow me to...