A Riddle for You
What do the Tooth Fairy and friends with benefits have in common? They are both make-believe. Yes, I have come to the conclusion that there is no such thing as friends with benefits. Oh yeah, we can delude ourselves into thinking that we can be "friends" with...
Self-Love at it’s Best
What if you were making love to someone really special? Would you put extra care into things like the room you were making love in, the atmosphere, your personal hygiene? Well, what if you did that all “just” for yourself? Plan some self-pleasuring time. Make it...
Masturbation- Not Just for Teenagers
This being National Masturbation Month and all, I am inspired to write about masturbation. First of all, we need to do something about that word. Lots of negative connotations to the word “masturbation”, wouldn’t you say? For me, it conjures up images of horny...
What’s Your Choice, Love or Fear?
In your relationships, do you choose love or fear? There are many circumstances under which this simple question throughout the day can make a tremendous difference in the quality of your relationship. You may be in a marriage, a monogamous relationship, or an open...
On Sexual Polarity
I know this couple who in many ways is not an unusual couple at all. She is a woman, yet she has a lot of masculine energy. He is a man, yet in many ways has a lot of feminine energy. He would have more masculine energy, he used to, until he realized that they...
One Story
A friend of mine had a rift in her marriage last year. This was not an unusual story. It may sound familiar to you, from your own life, or someone you know. She had been married for a considerable number of years. She noticed, several years before, that not only...
Meditation Makes Me Horny!
Yesterday we were sitting, listening to channeling during meditation group, and our spirit guides asked a question- how can someone restore their sex drive when it appears to be lost? And this is what popped into my head: meditation. Meditation makes me horny. Of...
Why are we Shaming Our Children?
I have been thinking about how we raise our children in terms of the messages we send about sexuality. For example, when I was growing up, one would have thought that sex didn’t exist. I honestly don’t believe I ever heard either of my parents say the word “sex” or...
When It’s Over
Are you ready? I’m going to share with you one of the greatest myths of our times: We are meant to fall in love once, and stay together with that person for the rest of our lives. Haven’t we all been told that? Haven’t we all been told that true love is forever? ...
Cougars and Such
The topic of cougars keeps coming up in my life. Some have said I am a cougar, although technically, I don't meet the full definition. But cougars are not just women, either. There are "man-cougars" too. Let's start with the female cougars, though, since that...