Full-Out Transparency…Part II

Back to my series on transparency via poly dating…when I left off, I had just “survived” the trials of my boyfriend going on his first date. He was about to embark on a trip to Japan for his work, which would keep him away for almost five weeks.  We...

Full-Out Transparency and Nothing Less

Many of you already know that I am in a new, polyamorous relationship with an amazing man!  And, even for those of you who are not poly and have no intention of ever being poly, my blogs about my relationship(s) are applicable to monogamous relationships as well.  The...

Let’s Talk About the C Word

I know, you think I’m about to write a blog about the word “cunt”, a taboo word for a part of the female anatomy.  It’s not that I’m afraid to say the word cunt.  I’m not.  Cuntcuntcuntcuntcuntcuntcunt.  See?!  It’s that today...

Selfishness Has a Bad Name

Really, I’m serious.  We are all told that being selfish is a bad thing, right?  Well, I disagree.  I think that if we all started to put ourselves first, the world would be a better place. You may be thinking:  But what about doing things for others?  If we all...

What’s Your “Learning Edge”?

You may or may not have heard this term, “learning edge”.  I first heard it when I was in life coaching school at The Hendricks Institute, about ten years ago.  My definition of it is basically this:  the thing that the Universe is presenting to you as...