Musings on the Green-Eyed Monster

The topic of jealousy has been coming up lately, as my partner and I have both been starting to date others in addition to each other.  We have each felt a twinge of jealousy at times, nothing major.  And I would say that both of us tend to be generally less prone to...

What Are You Grateful For?

Recently, while in California visiting my best friend, I watched this great documentary called “Happy” (they have it on Netflix).  The narrator is Marci Shimoff, who has written a number of books on happiness, including “Happy For No Reason”,...

Compersion- Yes!

Tomorrow is my partner’s birthday.  Well, technically for him, it’s his birthday now, because he’s in Japan.  And even though I can’t spend his birthday with him, I am incredibly happy!  I am having an amazing, embodied experience of...

New Relationship Paradigm

My blog the other day, “Jealousy of Time”, brought up some “yeah, buts” in some of you…understandably so. We have all been taught- by our parents, by the larger society, by the collective, that relationships are a certain way:  If...

“Jealousy of Time”

I had some great questions about “jealousy of time” from a reader the other day.  Since I’ve been writing so much about poly relationships, I assumed it was about jealousy in that context, but it wasn’t actually.  It was more of a general...