How to Come Like a Woman

How to Come Like a Woman

The way most of us learned to come is what I would call the masculine way, rather than learning how to come like a woman. In fact, most heterosexual sex, at least in this culture, is done in a very masculine way. The masculine is goal-oriented. It is direct. It gets...
Equality Rising Beyond Patriarchy

Equality Rising Beyond Patriarchy

Hello Friend,You know how I’m always talking about dismantling the patriarchy? Well, if you don’t know, I definitely am. It’s one of those topics that lives close to my heart because it shapes so much of how women experience the world. Some feminists say things...
I Knew It: Patriarchy and Sacred Sexuality

I Knew It: Patriarchy and Sacred Sexuality

Hello Friend, Don’t you love it when science proves something that you already “knew”? The past couple of days I’ve been listening to a replay of a master class given by Layla Martin. In case you don’t know who she is, she’s one of...

Can You Believe This?

I know I’ve mentioned this before, AND I continue to realize how amazing it is that my OB/GYN, who has likely examined many THOUSANDS of yonis, was impressed with how juicy my 59-year-old yoni is! Let me back up. I’ve been doing a daily self yoni massage...