Full-Out Transparency…Part III

If you’ve been following along with my last two posts, you’ll remember exactly where I am about to start off…to when my boyfriend (finally!) came home from Japan.  If not, you may want to go back and read parts I and II.  They’re ultimately...

Full-Out Transparency…Part II

Back to my series on transparency via poly dating…when I left off, I had just “survived” the trials of my boyfriend going on his first date. He was about to embark on a trip to Japan for his work, which would keep him away for almost five weeks.  We...

Full-Out Transparency and Nothing Less

Many of you already know that I am in a new, polyamorous relationship with an amazing man!  And, even for those of you who are not poly and have no intention of ever being poly, my blogs about my relationship(s) are applicable to monogamous relationships as well.  The...

Musings on the Green-Eyed Monster

The topic of jealousy has been coming up lately, as my partner and I have both been starting to date others in addition to each other.  We have each felt a twinge of jealousy at times, nothing major.  And I would say that both of us tend to be generally less prone to...

Compersion- Yes!

Tomorrow is my partner’s birthday.  Well, technically for him, it’s his birthday now, because he’s in Japan.  And even though I can’t spend his birthday with him, I am incredibly happy!  I am having an amazing, embodied experience of...

New Relationship Paradigm

My blog the other day, “Jealousy of Time”, brought up some “yeah, buts” in some of you…understandably so. We have all been taught- by our parents, by the larger society, by the collective, that relationships are a certain way:  If...