Dance Recital Musings
Today I went to my daughter’s dance recital. Normally, I don’t look forward to three hours of consecutive entertainment, and today was no different. (I want to see my kid dancing, just not her and everyone else’s kid, for so long ) But even in the midst of my bad...
Parting on Good Terms
It occurs to me lately that most of us have a great deal of trouble, once we realize that a relationship is over, leaving on good terms. It is as if we get amnesia for all the good things about our partners, all the reasons we were together in the first place, and...
Monogamy Revisited
Okay, so here’s the deal. I am not perfect. You’re really surprised by that, aren’t you? I am actually a work in progress, just like all of you and as such I may change my ideas about things from time to time, as I am about to do right now. In a previous blog, I...
Soulmates and Twin Flames Defined
In our mainstream culture, many people believe that a soulmate is that one person on the planet that they’re destined to be with, romantically speaking. They meet someone and believe that person is their soulmate. At long last they have found the one. But then it...
On Being Single
Last night I woke up in the middle of the night to pee. I know, nothing out of the ordinary, right? But what happened next was. For some reason, while I was sitting there, the fact that I am alone, I am single right now, came up. And for a split second I felt sad. ...
Love is…in my Hot Chocolate?
Yesterday morning I was feeling kind of melancholy. So I decided to write in my journal. (By the way, that is a good thing to do when you are feeling out of sorts; it helps to clarify your thoughts and feelings when you get them down on paper.) I settled down to...
Soul Linking
Last week I wrote about accepting your partner, listening to him or her with an open heart and an open mind. Well, I realize sometimes that works better than others. Sometimes our egos still get in the way, try as we might to work things out. Fortunately for us, we...
Acceptance Versus Resistance
Recently I posted about meditation. The purpose of meditation is to release resistance. Resistance can be defined as all the negative thoughts and feelings which interfere with your being in your natural state. In other words, your ego. Your natural state, on the...
A New Year’s Resolution
Personally I’m not that into New Year’s resolutions, but if you are I do have a recommendation. I know you’re thinking along the lines of getting in better shape or making more money in 2012, right? Or maybe you want to quit smoking, drinking, or eating junk food? I...
Sacred Union in The One Body
You’ve probably heard the expression that goes something like this: You can’t love another until you love yourself. Well, another way of saying that is this: You can’t have sacred union in the two bodies until you have had sacred union within the one body. What AM I...