Does God Believe in White Lies?

In case you're wondering, yes, this IS the kind of stuff I wonder about in my spare time.  But not for no particular reason.  A few things have happened that got me thinking about it.  First, our spirit guides have told us during channeling that they get their...

The Truth About Polyamory

The other day I was thinking about polyamory (something I often do), and what I landed on is that many people hold beliefs about polyamory without having much or any knowledge or experience of it.  Below, I will name a few of these beliefs, and shed some light on the...

Wanna Spice up Your Sex Life?

A couple of years back, when my friend and I were doing the Booty Doctors radio show, we had Hercules Liotard, aka The Pleasure Coach on our show as a guest.  Hercules is based in California and specializes in intimate touch, along with sex and intimacy coaching.  I...

An “Aha” Moment in a Mundane Place

Sometimes I think I have my most brilliant thoughts on the toilet.  I don't know what it is.  Maybe it's when I stop doing, doing, doing and my mind has a chance to quiet down. That makes sense. So last night I got up to pee in the middle of the night.  I was half...

Fifty Shades of Dysfunction

As I move through the Fifty Shades Trilogy, I am frequently frustrated by the ridiculousness of the arguments that the two main characters, Ana and Christian, have.  It's kind of like watching one of those stupid sitcoms, when the characters do the predictable,...

Fifty Shades of Progress

I finally broke down and started reading the Fifty Shades of Grey trilogy.  I'm not even all the way through it yet.  And yes, I do have to agree with the critics that the series is not the most well-written, has a lot of typos, and perpetuates the stereotypes of porn...

A New Twist on Independence Day

Tomorrow is the 4th of July, aka Independence Day in America.  As I was reading a blog about Independence Day, I thought:  what if we also treated it as Independence Day for our relationships?  A common source of conflicts in intimate relationships is when one partner...

The Good Girl/Bad Girl Split

I know guys, you want it all.  As that rapper tune says (I’m paraphrasing)- ‘I want a lady on the streets but a freak in the bed’.  Really?  Cause according to my sources, you think she doesn’t exist.  Maybe that’s one of the reasons you (all of us really, but I’m...

Don’t Give Yourself Away

I have this little plastic heart in my house.  My daughter gave it to me years ago.  It’s a container.  It’s one of those things I’ve kept not because I really wanted a little plastic heart (I’m a big minimalist when it comes to “stuff”), but for sentimental reasons. ...

“Baggage”- How Much is too Much?

Let’s imagine you start dating a new man or woman, and based on things you are finding out, you start to ask yourself the age-old question: Does the person have too much"baggage"?  In my opinion, the answer is: it depends.  Everyone has some baggage.  I don’t care who...