S.E.X. is Where It’s At

The other night I got to put into practice all my recent suggestions about how to proceed when you have an “issue” you need to talk to your partner about.  I did NOT start out by saying we needed to talk.  I simply said:  “After dinner, I’d...

Squirting 101

As in any basic course, I will start at the very beginning.  There have been some (fairly recent!) scientific claims that the G-spot doesn’t exist.  In order to talk about squirting, aka female ejaculation, we must first talk about the G-spot.  Yes, Virginia,...

Transparency- The Sexiest Thing on the Planet

My recent blogs about communication have spurred a great discussion with one of my readers.  (Incidentally, some people prefer to respond to my blogs privately, and if it would make you more comfortable to do the same, please do.) You know how I was talking about...

“Honey We Need to Talk” (Part II)

Okay, so in my last blog, I went over what not to do (as a woman- or a man) in having a “serious talk” with your male partner.  Today, it’s about what to do: 1.  Arrange a time to talk with you partner.  Tell him that you want to talk, what it is...

“Honey, We Need to Talk” (Part I)

A couple of years ago, when I was still working as a dancer, I was getting off shift one night, and one of the other dancers asked something like:  “So, what are all you day-shifters doing tonight?”  I said that I was going home to have a “serious...