Polyamory Revisited

So something exciting has happened in my life.  I daresay, I have met someone- first time EVER, people- who meets me on all the levels I need to be met. As usual, I ordered him up from the Universe.  I requested someone who meets me spiritually, emotionally, and sexually. And voila.  Thank you, God/dess. And then something totally surprising happened next.  I was on the phone with my bestie, who's pretty damn psychic by the way, and she told me she kept getting the message that I have been polyamorous because I couldn't find everything I wanted in one person. ...

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What I Require

I've been having some pretty crazy-good experiences since getting back from Puerto Rico.  So much gratitude for so many of my sisters and brothers on their own journeys.  Sometimes I am in the role of provider of love, opportunity for healing, all the good things...sometimes I am in the role of receiver.  Or is there really a difference, I ask myself, between giving and receiving?  (No.) One of the gifts I have received in the last couple months is the chance to do some work with a very skilled teacher of Family Constellations, Suzi Tucker.  I think I heard of this ...

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A Stand For Love

I am living in the new paradigm now.  The Universe of my understanding requires me to show up as love. I AM love; you ARE love. This new place of a deeper, yet at the same time higher, understanding of this whole thing called life may sound confusing at times.  It does not conform to the old ways of doing things.  The old ideas of what is "right" and "wrong" hold no validity here. Perhaps you have been feeling some conflict lately.  I wouldn't be surprised.  Many at this time on the planet are.  The old way is starting to fall away....can you feel it?  And ...

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My New “Poly”

I have been in a deep exploration of relationship lately. This starts with my relationship with myself, and with the Source within me, which are kind of the same. And here's what I've come to: my deepest desire is to be so connected to Who I Really Am that I am no longer conditional in my ability to give and receive love, to be in the flow of love, and to feel worthy of love.  To experience joy.  I desire to be in the flow of love no matter what.  When it's raining.  When I have period cramps.  When the sun is shining.  When someone appears to be rejecting me. ...

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My Dating Experiment

So yesterday I broke one of my own "rules"; not that I really have rules.  ;) I have been telling my clients for years that they do not need to join dating sites in order to find a partner.  All they have to do is get out of the house once in a while.  If their soul and their future partner's soul planned to meet, it will happen.  Online dating not needed. And then I was essentially alone, for like eight months.  And I WAS getting out of the house.  And then I got sick of not having a regular partner to do and share things with.  And I don't mean just friend...

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