The Sacred Blow Job

What, you say?!  “Sacred” and “blow job” being used in the same sentence?  Ohhhh, yes!!!!  I made it up.  And it rocks!

And today is your lucky day.  I’m going to share how to give a sacred blow job, start to finish.  Ready?

1.  Be present to the Divine Feminine within you.  Whether you are a man or a woman giving a blow job, the Goddess lives in you.  She lives in all of us.  I suggest meditation beforehand in which you (the giver) tune into the feminine energy within- the flowing, receiving, sensual, emotional, circular, creative energy, and your partner (the receiver) tune into the Divine Masculine within himself- the powerful, intelligent, logical, strong, linear, goal-directed energy.

2.  Keep your eyes closed and take that focus a step further.  If you as the giver are a woman, focus your awareness on your yoni (Sanskrit word for vulva/vagina/womb).  As the male receiver, focus your awareness on your lingam (Sanskrit word for penis).  Now, open your eyes.  The rest of the instructions are for the giver of the sacred blow job.

3.  Start by visually appreciating your man.  Look into his eyes, look over his beautiful naked body lying before you.  Bring your visual attention to his lingam, which is probably quite erect already.  If not, no worries.  I don’t think this is going to be a problem. 😉 Visually appreciate his lingam.  Send love to it with your eyes.

4.  Now, start to touch him with your hands, very lightly, and then your mouth.  His face, neck, shoulders, arms, stomach, thighs.  If you feel the impulse to give him a few love nips, do so, as long as he is okay with it.  Finally, lightly caress his lingam with your fingertips, lips, and tongue before receiving it into your mouth, very slowly.

5.  Allow yourself, during this whole process, to be surprised by what you do next- the opposite of planning your moves.  Be in the moment, in the flow of the experience.  Tune into what you want to do now, and now, and now.  Or better yet, get so into it, you’re not even aware of the choice to do anything, it’s just happening automatically. Bring out the blow job genius within you. Step #6 will help with this.

6.  Be present to every nuance in your partner’s response to what you are doing.  It will become a dance.  You do something, this elicits a response in him.  What you do next is influenced by his response.  Become one with him in this way.

7.  Know that his lingam- his “wand of light” is shooting life force energy, light, through the top of your head.  (Or back of your head, whatever the case may be.  Ahem.)  Imagine this energy creating a circuit so that it loops around and re-enters your own body through your root chakra (at your perineum/yoni), up through your core- until it re-joins with his lingam and again shoots right out of your crown.

8.  Optional (and recommended):  do a simultaneous internal or external prostate massage.  (If you don’t know how to do this, look it up, or wait to see if I write a blog just about that, which I’m leaning toward right now.)  If you do include this part, it can start even before or when you receive his lingam into your mouth.  Adding this piece in will increase both his pleasure and the intensity of his orgasm later.

9.  ENJOY yourself.  Feel how juicy and wet your yoni is getting, if you as the giver have a yoni.    This is for your mutual pleasure.  Yummmm.

10.  When your partner seems to be getting close to orgasm, slowly back off a bit and settle him back down.  Don’t stop the blow job. That is just cruel.  Just provide less stimulation until you sense he is less aroused.  Let his life force energy build -and then back off again- one to two more times before allowing him to climax.  Believe me, he will thank you for it later, if not in the moment!

11.  Slowly, gently, withdraw your mouth and your touch.

12.  Laugh out loud together at how amazing that was.

13.  Cuddle while basking in the afterglow of your delightful co-creation.

Whew!  I don’t know about y’all, but I am horny now.

You’re welcome for the sacred porn.