Squirting 102 (Prerequisite: Squirting 101)

I really have a lot to say about squirting.  That’s what happens with the topics I love, like blow jobs.

Today I am going to help you find your way around a G-spot.

But first I want to say this:  In Squirting 101, I talked about amrita, the sacred name for female ejaculate.  I described it as a clear, odorless, tasteless liquid.  Well, for some women, their “come” looks more like a man’s come.  I don’t mean the creamy white stuff that comes out of their pussies when they are turned on.  All women have that.  I mean that, for some women, when they ejaculate from their urethral opening, what comes out is a thick, white squirt of ejaculate.  And some women can ejaculate the more common clear stuff on some days, and the white stuff on others.  Aren’t we just wonderful and complex?  So, if you are a woman whose ejaculate is the thicker, white kind, don’t worry. There is nothing wrong with you, and you are not “doing it wrong”.

Now that we’ve covered how to find your G-spot and what kinds of ejaculate the female prostate can produce, let’s get down to the basic anatomy of a G-spot.   As previously mentioned, it can be felt with a finger or two inserted inside the vagina, facing up toward the woman’s belly.   See if you can feel, with your finger, where it begins and ends.  You will stop feeling the ridges on the wall of the vagina where the G-spot ends, farther into the vagina.  Now feel to the left and right of the G-spot.  Your finger will dip into a place, one of each side, where the G-spot ends.  These are called the “gutters” and feel quite a bit like the gutters where poorly aimed bowling balls go.  (But trust me, this sport is much more fun than bowling!)

So, you have now felt the entirety of your G-spot, or your partner’s G-spot, whatever the case may be.  Remember, technically, even though what I’m describing is frequently referred to as the G-spot, what you’re really touching is the part of the vaginal wall through which a woman’s G-spot can be felt.

What should one do with a G-spot, you may be wondering?  First, regard it as the sacred spot that it is. As Deborah Sundahl says in her book “Female Ejaculation and The G-spot”:  “G-spot awakening is about discovering that one’s erotic body has infinite capacity to express emotions, love, and intimacy.”

Please note:  some women will have a G-spot that’s rather numb; others will experience pain when their G-spot is touched.  Either or both can be caused by traumatic memories being held in the body.  If you experience either numbness or pain, know that through patient, repeated G-spot massage, these feelings can be released and your G-spot can be restored to its naturally sensitive, pleasurable state.  Some women prefer to have the support of a partner or a professional to help them through this process.  Others prefer to do it alone.  Either way, it’s an opportunity to heal something that needs to be healed, and the rewards are great!

If you get the green light when touching your G-spot initially, experiment now with touching it in different ways.  Try rubbing it in a slow, circular motion.  Do this on the G-spot itself, and in the gutters.  Some women prefer more of a poking motion, with a finger, dildo or cock.  Others like a finger (or two) used repeatedly in a come-hither motion.  If you start to feel an urge to urinate, do not be fooled;  this is a sign that the ejaculate is building, and will pass in time to a more pleasurable sensation.  You can also experiment with different amounts of speed and pressure.   Some types of stimulation and “spots” will feel better than others.  Notice what you like- this information will be useful for your future pleasure and your ability to squirt!