Now that I’m 60, I think I might be finally growing up. I know that sounds like a joke, but it takes
a LONG TIME to grow up.
I’m 60 and Finally Learning What It Means to Grow Up
Here are the signs:
1. I started listening to national and international news. It’s a little embarrassing to admit, but
I’ve always had a “no news” policy. Now, in the past month I am listening to radio stations that
tell me the news. I know it’s at least partly because there’s so much going on right now, but
also at least part of it has to be maturity.
2. I don’t rely on my appearance for positive feedback. For example, I had to have hip
replacement surgery in 2023, and now I have a huge scar on my right hip. Years ago, I would
have been so much more self conscious about it. Now I know I am so much more than my
body.
3. I am finally able to be okay ALL THE TIME. I have had a life with a lot of contrast in it. I had
the best extended family growing up, but I was traumatized at home. I got married to the love
of my life in 2021, but my daughter got diagnosed with Bipolar Disorder two weeks before the
wedding. Depression runs in my family, and I’ve had my share of it. But now even when things
are emotionally tough, I am better than okay. I am always grateful for how amazing life is.
Being Okay With Every Emotion at 60
Does that mean that “bad things” don’t happen anymore? Hell no. They happen in everyone’s
life. It’s more that I have shifted what “bad” means and finally learned that “bad” is just neutral
with a label on it. I can be okay and whole with ALL emotions. If you want to learn how to do
this, sign up for a free Connection Call here: www.calendly.com/mariamerloni.
Another great sign: I am not the least bit upset about being 60. In fact, it’s more like I am
proud of having made it this far and having created such a good life for myself!
Published on: 01/26/2026