Best Breakup Tips

Every time I have another breakup, it seems, I get better and better at getting through the aftermath in a healthy way.  That does not mean it is now fast and easy for me.  It means it is as fast and easy as it can be, which is still long and difficult. I’m not...

Mirror, Mirror

You may have heard the saying:  “other people are your mirror”?  What that means to me is, other people have a gift for us, even when we may not at first perceive it as such.  Other people in our lives are mirroring to us something about ourselves.  It can...

In The End….

…we didn’t make it.  Yes, my first official polyamorous relationship is over. 🙁 I can hardly believe it myself.  I’m not gonna lie.  It sucks.  I don’t even like talking about it.  But I feel I owe it to all of you, those who have been loyally...

It Takes Two, Baby

Whenever there is a conflict in a relationship, you can be sure it is not one person’s “fault”.  There is simply no such thing. You see, we all have unresolved issues from the past, whether they be from past lives or this current lifetime.  I...

You Own You

This keeps coming up for me:  couples that try to put restrictions on each other, to control each other.  Probably because I am such a free spirit myself 🙂 it has always irked me when I hear about this.  For example, years ago, when I was still working for a human...