No Wonder it Works!
Back in my social worker days, I did outreach to homeless people. As part of my job, I would attend a monthly meeting with other clinicians from around the state who did the same thing, outreach to homeless people on the streets and in shelters. Sometimes we would...
The “Him-Shaped Void”
A few months ago, I read a book called Dear Lover by David Deida. In it he talks about a concept he called the him-shaped void. In my mind, I changed it to the man-shaped void, so that’s what I prefer to call it now. I’m quirky like that. Regardless of what it is...
When Sparks Don’t Fly
There comes a time in any long term relationship when sex is just not the same as it used to be. One day, it seems you wake up, and you realize the sparks are not flying. What happened to that feeling that you couldn’t wait to be with the other person? What...
The Habit of Meditation
Back in my Booty Doctor's days (the radio show my friend and I used to do for men, regarding their sexuality and relationships), I subscribed to Men's Journal magazine. I thought it would give me some good ideas of topics for the show. Month after month, there was...
What You Focus Your Attention on Grows
It's sort of like plants. If you focus your attention on them, giving them plenty of water and sunlight, they will grow. So will your "problems". I put problems in quotation marks because, rather than perceiving them as such, I find it more helpful to think of them...
One Night Stand S.E.X.
Okay, I admit it's not as scandalous as the title sounds. But it is a juicy story, so you may want to read on: Several months ago I did something I rarely do, I went out dancing. Not that I don't like to dance- I love it actually, but just don't seem to get around...
You are Three in One
If you have been paying attention to things, you may have noticed there is something to the number three. Three is the significant number in the Holy Trinity, for instance. And it is also the number of parts you have as a human being. You are three- mind, body,...
S.E.X. Maniacs
"We're constantly having sex over here", our spirit guides said to us one day during channeling. Wow, what a bunch of sex maniacs, I thought to myself. Sounds great. Wish I were over there! That was a while ago. I now realize two things I didn't know then: 1. ...
I Said Whaaat?
One day not too long ago I was sitting with a client whom I've been seeing for years. We were talking about crying. And suddenly I found myself saying something that I didn't even know was true. (I have this experience sometimes; I believe it is non-physical...
The Four Clairs
As promised, today I am going to talk about the "four clairs". The four clairs are the four ways that we can receive information from non-physical. They are: clairvoyance, claircognizance, clairsentience, and clairaudience. If you're not familiar with the four...