Stacking the Odds in Your Favor
Having and keeping clear agreements (or, changing agreements up front) is essential to having a successful relationship, any type of relationship. In poly relationships it is vital. My new partner and I have very few agreements right now, since we're just starting...
What Polyamory is Not
One of my main passions in life lately has been polyamory- not just because I am newly in a polyamorous relationship (although I am passionate about that :)), also because I am just absolutely fascinated with learning about all aspects of it. Learning about polyamory...
Not Just Two, but Three Types of Sacred Union
In the past, I have written about the two types of sacred union: sacred union in the one body, and sacred union in the two bodies. It is my life purpose to learn and teach about sacred union. It was recently revealed to me in a channeling session that there are in...
Things You Can See in a Strip Club
Last night, I went to a strip club with some friends. They had read my book, "The Naked Truth", and told me they wanted to go to a strip club but were scared to go alone. So, they twisted my arm 😉 and got me to go with them. They found an awesome little "hole in...
Don’t Tell The Story
That's the best advice I've heard all week...don't tell the story. During channeling over the weekend, our non-physical friends were talking about manifestation, again- it's one of their favorite subjects. And they said that my friend and I would manifest what we...
Who We Really Are
Recently, I was at a charity event where there was a local band whose members were from my high school. There were people there that I literally hadn't seen since I was fourteen years old. I didn't know how I felt about it, at first. Normally it is not the kind of...
Make Finding a Partner Fun and Easy
My new partner and I like to play this game. You may play this one too. He says: "What are you thinking about?" during one of those rare moments when I am not actually talking, and I tell him. Which prompts me to ask him the same question. I like it. If you...
What I’ve Always Wanted
Here's some exciting news: I've given myself an early Christmas present, and it's just what I've always wanted! And I didn't even know I was going to give it to myself! And, for most of my life, I didn't even know I wanted it. And I do. Okay, I'll stop being such...
Still on the Self-Compassion Kick
I do want to share with you more of the self-compassion techniques that I referenced in my last blog, "Self-Compassion is the Antidote to Suffering". As you may have surmised, I was often times in a desperate state during the time period I am now choosing to call my...
Self-Compassion is the Antidote to Suffering
As I mentioned in my blog last week, titled "I Love", I have been on a long, amazing journey of growth and discovery. Probably the most important thing I learned in the past eighteen months: the difference between pain and suffering is self-compassion. One of the...