I Have to Tell You, Part II

For those of you who have been waiting with bated breath 😛 for part II of my last blog, here it is: The updates about my primary relationship are the following. 1.  No sooner had I mentioned that no one ever “arrives” at any particular place in life, (this...

I Have to Tell You

I know many of you have been reading my blogs from the beginning of my primary relationship, which started over a year ago now, and were privy to every excruciating detail of the struggles I have had.  It’s my first real polyamorous relationship, and I/we had...

A New Kind of Hangover

Typically, people think of hangovers as the thing that they get after drinking too much alcohol the night before.  While of course that is a hangover, I have recently coined another new term.  I call it the “monogamy hangover”.  That is the thing that...

My Boyfriend’s Not a Shmuck…

…and poly doesn’t suck. It has come to my attention that a number of you, after reading my blogs in which I describe all the most painful moments of my primary relationship, have come to the conclusion that- well, basically, that my primary partner is a...

He Slept With “Jane”…

…and I am fine. Some of you who have been following my blog right along already know who Jane is.  She’s the woman I gave the fake name to that my partner did some withholding about.  That triggered the f*ck out of me for various reasons in the past....