“Full Catashrophe” Dating

The author of a book named “Full Catastrophe Living”, John Kabat-Zinn, refers to “the poignant enormity of our life experience” and suggests mindfulness (being present in each moment) as a means to coping with it.  After a recent experience in...

Warning: Rant about Ranting Ahead

As those of you who read my blog regularly know, I rarely go on a rant about anything….and I feel once coming on.  Just sayin’ This particular rant got triggered by a post I read the other day, in which a Facebook friend of mine (whom I don’t know...

The “D Word”

That’s what my daughter used to call “divorce” when she was five.  When her dad and I got divorced.  Interestingly, she was unknowingly reflecting the attitude of our whole society toward divorce.  We treat it is if as it were a bad word.  Kind of...

Sweet Spots Happen- Part II

So then last weekend was when I landed on the name for where my poly partner and I are at:  the “sweet spot”. Let me back up a bit.  I left off last week telling about our recent round two of concealing, pain, mistrust, revealing, recommitting to...

Sweet Spots Happen

After my (rather dramatic) blogs about my dating experience in my polyamorous relationship, you may have been wondering…well, what happened next?  Thankfully, things have settled down quite a bit, so there hasn’t been as much to tell.  And, this past...

‘Til Death do us Part?

Really?!  I don’t know about you, but deep down inside, I have always had a “niggle” about this phrase…something that in my body I could feel I was not okay with, but that I could not put into words… And then, just as I had been writing...