What if Affairs Were a Thing of the Past?
What if the only parts of love "affairs" were the good parts that I talked about in my last blog? What if those whose souls truly, deeply wanted to be monogamous with each other chose that, and the rest chose polyamory? What if those "affairs" weren't really affairs...
What’s so Bad about a Love Affair?
I know there is a lot of judgment out there about people who have affairs. I've even judged myself and others for having them. And, I'd like us to rethink the whole thing. I'm not saying that people should have more affairs, or even that they are not "wrong" in the...
Same-Sex Attraction
I think it's about time we started to admit that we are attracted to one another. People are attracted to one another. Yes, I know there is such a thing as being heterosexual. That's not what I'm talking about. What I'm saying is everyone, or just about everyone,...
I Am a Gem…And so Are You.
This phrase, and the knowledge that I was going to write this blog, came to me a couple of nights ago. It was just after a session with a client. I was tuned in during the session in a way that I have rarely been before in this lifetime. Sometimes the Universe...
Be Generous With Your Love- Part II
The second part of "being generous with your love" is to share that love with others. (The first part being giving love to yourself, which I wrote about in my previous blog.) The more you love yourself, the easier it is to love others and the more you will notice...
Be Generous With Your Love
I'm talking about two types of generosity here: The first type is generosity toward yourself; the second is generosity toward others. The most common, perhaps only, root of the "problems" that clients present to me is a lack of self-love. Technically, it's a...
The Many Benefits of Squirting
My blogs "Squirting 101" and "Squirting 102" have been some of the most popular I've ever written. Just in case you are a woman and I haven't yet piqued your interest, today I'd like to discuss why a woman would want to squirt. (By the way, in case you were...
Polyamory as a Spiritual Path
Let me first say this: in terms of one's sexual choices- monogamy, celibacy, polyamory- it can all be a spiritual path. None is"better" than the others. The path I am on simply happens to be polyamory. Here are some of the ways in which I see that polyamory is a...
Full-Out Transparency…Part IV
Again, if you haven't read parts I, II, and III of my blog on transparency in relationships, I suggest you go back and do that now... Picking up where I left off, I went through the next forty-eight hours with much crying, journal writing, and "villain-izing" my...
Full-Out Transparency…Part III
If you've been following along with my last two posts, you'll remember exactly where I am about to start off...to when my boyfriend (finally!) came home from Japan. If not, you may want to go back and read parts I and II. They're ultimately about the power of...