My blogs “Squirting 101” and “Squirting 102” have been some of the most popular I’ve ever written. Just in case you are a woman and I haven’t yet piqued your interest, today I’d like to discuss why a woman would want to squirt. (By the way, in case you were wondering, all women have the anatomy and therefore the ability to squirt.)
1. Being the hedonist that I am, the first reason that comes to mind is this: it feels amazing. Impossible to describe. Ecstatic, luscious, freeing…? These words don’t do it justice. You’ll have to try it to find out for yourself!
2. The after-effects are amazing. As I said to my partner just the other day: “Squirting orgasms put me in the best mood ev-verrrrr!”
3. The G-spot is the place that many women hold emotions in their body, so when they squirt, it is not just ejaculate that is being released- it is feelings as well. Squirting increases a woman’s overall depth of feeling. And that results in feeling more alive.
4. It is your birthright. It is natural. It is what you would naturally do as a woman, had we as a species not been repressing our sexuality for thousands of years. God/dess worked things out perfectly a long time ago. Squirting helps us get back to that aspect of perfection.
5. Most of the time, it is a huge turn-on for a partner to see a woman squirt. And then that becomes an even bigger turn on for the woman who’s squirting. And the sexual feelings just keep bouncing from one to the other and back again. Until the two (or three or four) of you are just one big delicious ball of yummm together- aka S.E.X!
6. Squirting increases the flow of sexual energy in your body. Sexuality is intertwined with creativity. Squirting, therefore, leads to more creativity, which can only be a good thing!
7. It is spiritual. Your sexuality is your spirituality. All of our energy is sexual energy. Squirting, one of the natural physical manifestations of S.E.X., therefore, is spiritual too.
8. Squirting is empowering. It comes as a result of a woman being grounded in her full femininity, intimately acquainted with her own body, and unafraid to explore it’s erotic potential.
If you happen to be a man reading this, and you’re getting a bit envious right now, I can understand.
What’s a man to do, you may be wondering? You can encourage your female partner to learn to squirt, both for her own benefit and for yours. However, if either a) she doesn’t want to, or b) you don’t have a female partner- you can always set the intention to come back in your next lifetime as a woman ;). Believe me, it will be worth it for the squirting alone!
it is the best feeling ever i love it.
I agree 🙂
I just made my woman/GF squirt for the first time with a finger and a $100 vibrator. She is now feeling very very happy and refreshed. The fluid clearly came from inside the vagina, not from the pee hole. I have never seen her so relieved in her life. I will do this for her every night if she wants it. I love it and it was so easy to accomplish!
Hi Joe,
That’s great that you were able to help your girlfriend have a squirting orgasm. It is not possible for amrita, or female ejaculate, to actually come from a woman’s vagina. If it was a clear, thin liquid it had to have come out of her urethra (“pee hole”). Often, a woman’s urethra is quite close to the opening of her vagina, so it may appear to be coming out of her vagina. Otherwise, it could have been a lot of vaginal lubrication that you saw.
In any case, no matter what it was or where it came from, it sounds like both of you really enjoyed it, and I guess that’s the real point! Thanks for letting us know of your success!
Maria
I had a man teach me what squirting is and i have been trying so long to make myself squirt and i finally did it today! How awesome it feels!
Good for you! Personally I find it hard to describe the amazing-ness of that feeling! I do know that EVERY woman in capable of doing it, and I’m glad you figured it out!
I first squirted my girlfriend about a year ago. We were out on a resort. Everything was perfect at the beach resort. We were both relaxed. I just used both tongue and my fingers. Her moans changed as I progressed and suddenly SHE WAS UP ON ALL HER FOURS. She was lifted up spontaneously. Sheets were wet and she took fetal position as she started to shiver. I was all the time speaking LOVe softly in her ears. Till this day she wants to come and come and come. The moral is do not be in a hurry. Relax. Be in the right environment and of course know your partner. Love to All. Mir
Yes, I agree. Also it sounds like this first time was an “accidental” squirting. The other aspect that probably helped in this scenario was not putting too much pressure on the woman to perform, and he not putting too much pressure on herself. Thanks for sharing!
Im just an average asian guy with an average asian penis. Its such a great motivation that i get from being able to make my gf squirt so not only my gf had an incredible pleasure but its also a boost of confidence when you were able to make your gf squirt.
So squirting also benefits the man in away.
Also girls, just relax and let it happen. My first girl that I make love always withdraw from making love because she was about to squirt and she is afraid its pee. Its not k. Enjoy it.
Hi “average asian guy”. Thanks for making this very good point that the men also benefit when the women squirt. It’s a win-win!