The Purification of Swinging

Over the last year or so, having been involved in the “polyamory” community in the Boston, MA area, I have made some observations about the use of terms commonly used to describe non-monogamy.  I have looked up some definitions (below) on Wikipedia, just...

8/13/13 Was a Big Day!

It was the day I committed to fulfilling my life purpose in the world.  It was the day I said my “Sacred Yes”, as my friend and colleague Johanna Lyman calls it. Sure, I have said it before, not knowing that I really didn’t mean it. Are you ready for...

Here’s to More Skin!

Last week I got back from Spain.  My daughter and I visited our exchange student and her mom, and while we were there we explored a bit of the country.  We hit a number of beaches, both in Spain and in France (which was so nearby we couldn’t resist going.) It...

You Know You’re Having Good Sex When…

…your entire body and mind is so completely relaxed afterward that you feel like you just got a full-body massage. …after it’s over, you both break out into a fit of laughter that feels like it may never end. …you cry during sex, in a good way....