Monogamy Revisited

Okay, so here’s the deal.  I am not perfect.  You’re really surprised by that, aren’t you? I am actually a work in progress, just like all of you and as such I may change my ideas about things from time to time, as I am about to do right now.

In a previous blog, I made an argument that we, as human beings, are not meant to be monogamous.  Well, I have since found out more information on that. As some of you know, I am frequently exposed to channeling during our Sunday “meditation group”.  We call it the meditation group, but that’s just to make ourselves sound really normal(ish).  After we meditate, many times we listen while one of our members allows non-physical entities called spirit guides to speak through her.

Spirit guides are souls that have agreed to be with us throughout our lifetime to “guide” us, as the name would suggest.  We each have three of them.  Usually one male two female or one female two male.  And they have names.  But here’s the tricky thing.  They only give themselves sexes and names to make it more understandable for us.  Truly, they have neither, nor does God, but they accommodate us sometimes to make things easier for us to understand.

Very often our guides talk about sex.  It’s funny, sometimes when we have a new group member hear the channeling for the first time, they ask the question: “why are your guides always talking about sex?”  And then we explain that my work is primarily about sex and that is why.

Our guides are very blunt.  Not unkind, but they don’t mince words. They have told many of us that our sex lives are boring.  And they go on to say that the reason our sex lives are boring is that we only have one sexual partner.  They tell us that humans invented monogamy, not Source.  So that led me to believe that we all were meant to be polyamorous, meaning to have more than one sexual partner.

Just to clarify, one day I asked more specifically about this.  (They allow  us to ask questions, and they will answer them.)  In fact, they said the majority of our souls intended to have more than one partner at once, but some of our souls came here intending to be monogamous.  I asked for percentages, but they wouldn’t go there.  They don’t always answer everything!

Why, then, if so many of us came here to be polyamorous, are there so few polyamorous people on the planet?  I didn’t ask this, because I’m pretty sure I already know the answer.  Sometimes we get off course from what we came here to do, because it’s not just our soul that shows up here. We have two other parts, mind and body. And many times, the mind gets in the way of the desire of the high self, or soul.  The mind gets filled with things like religion and societal views and overrides the desire of the soul. (The body could get in the way of other things, but in this case it seems to be primarily the mind sort of taking over.)

So, how about you?  Regardless of what your choices have been in this lifetime so far in terms of being monogamous or polyamorous, what do you suspect that your soul really desires?  How can you tell?

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