Last week I went in to have my annual pelvic exam. Sexy, right?

Well, it LEADS to something really sexy, so read on!

My practitioner and I had been talking about hormones and how things are working in my yoni. When she started the internal exam, she commented on how wet my yoni was. And it wasn’t because I was turned on! Of course, she didn’t say “wet” or “yoni”, but I’m paraphrasing — that’s what she meant.

Immediately, I had the thought to tell her about my daily yoni massage practice obviously being the reason why, at 59 and almost 60, my yoni IS much wetter than most women’s yonis at my age.

I wasn’t bold enough to tell her about yoni massage (she probably has no idea what it even is), yet I have promised myself that if the topic ever comes up again with her, I will.

I hear from women that their yonis have become like The Sahara Desert. Mine has never reached that level of dryness. However, I had definitely noticed that my yoni wasn’t as juicy as it used to be.

After just a few weeks of practicing yoni massage every day, I noticed that it was definitely becoming wetter again.

You might be younger than I. You might take your own wetness or your partner’s wetness for granted. I don’t recommend that. DO lavish in it. It may not always be there.

However, if you start and maintain a daily yoni massage practice, you probably won’t even get dryer in the first place. And, if you have, you can certainly change that.

Here’s the part I learned today in my research: There’s science that backs up my assertion that yoni massage lubricates the yoni. I found out that when the yoni is massaged, it increases our estrogen production, and estrogen is responsible for yoni juiciness! How cool is that?! I love it!

What, you say? You don’t know how to do a self yoni massage?

Well, good news! I will soon be releasing my new Home Study Course “The Lost Art: Self Yoni Massage”! It will be a video series that you can watch in the privacy of your own home, learn the practice, and shift your beliefs, feelings, as well as your body. You’ll be able to release sexual shame, go through a series of steps, and heal yourself, thus improving your sexual functioning. As such, you will be able to regain the power that is your birthright, through tantra.

Also, at times I have local workshops in the Boston area that show and demonstrate yoni massage and self yoni massage with in-person or virtual attendance.

And yes, male-identifying folks, there’s a surprise coming up for you as well!