Make Finding a Partner Fun and Easy
My new partner and I like to play this game. You may play this one too. He says: “What are you thinking about?” during one of those rare moments when I am not actually talking, and I tell him. Which prompts me to ask him the same question. I like it. If you haven’t tried it, I suggest that you do. It’s a good way to have fun and learn.
So the other morning I was lying on top of him, resting my head, and he asked me the question. Admittedly, my answer was a teensy bit less profound than his. I said: “I like it when you play with my boobs”, going with the honesty thing. And his answer to the question was this: “I wonder how I ever found you again?” I told him that it was easy- our souls planned it and then it was absolutely effortless for both of our personalities.
Which brings up a point that I’ve been wanting to make here. This applies to all new relationships, not just to polyamorous ones. And here it is: None of us ever has to try to meet someone. In fact, when have you ever in your life met someone worthwhile when you have been trying to meet someone? For me, never. All that advice about thinking of where the type of person you want to meet hangs out, and then going there? Bunch of crap. All those dating sites? Totally unnecessary. All that trying to convince yourself that you really like the new person you’re dating ’cause you really want to like him/her? Don’t have to do it.
And why is that? Because before you came here, to the planet, you decided upon who the important partners in your life were going to be. Your soul took care of that business, right down to the nitty gritty details of where and how you’re going to meet, with no special effort required on the part of your personality. Aren’t you brilliant? (Say yes!) When your soul is really bonded to another, in the way of being a soul mate (which you have lots of, not just one), and the two of you have decided ahead of time that you want to meet up here again, you will.
Sure, sometimes I guess it’s possible that your soul wants variety and wants to take up with a soul that’s brand new for you. Well, guess what? That will take care of itself too. Simply because of the law of attraction, our souls are always connecting with others that are vibrating at the same level as we are.
What if all of life could be this fun and easy? I know, you’re probably guessing what I’m going to say next….it can!