Law of Attraction in Action
I forgot. The good news is, it's been so long (apparently, since I felt really sh*tty) that I actually forgot what happens. The bad new is, it's bad, lol.
Then I realized: it's a good teaching point. This is the Law of Attraction in Action (see how that rhymes)? The Law of Attraction is that thing that makes life so that when we are on a roll, more and more good things keep happening. And when we are in the dumps, more and more bad things keep happening. Did you ever notice that life is like that? Like attracts like. When my vibration is at a high level, I attract things energetically that match it. The reverse is also true, unfortunately. These pesky Universal laws always have a caveat ;)....
What Are We Rewarding?
I think my daughter goes to a "good" high school. By that I mean it is a relatively safe, low-violence place where my experience has been that the majority of administrators and other staff there are engaged and enthusiastic about the work they are doing with our young people. As with many things in life, however, the term "good" is all relative.
I have no doubt that the staff there are well-meaning. And, they are still a product of our society. ...
Here’s to More Skin!
Last week I got back from Spain. My daughter and I visited our exchange student and her mom, and while we were there we explored a bit of the country. We hit a number of beaches, both in Spain and in France (which was so nearby we couldn't resist going.)
It was my first "real" time out of the U.S. I had been to Canada and Mexico before, and to various tropical islands, but never to Europe. And I'll tell ya, I loved it! So much so that I think my daughter was offended by the number of times I pointed out all the things that were "better" in Spain than in America.
One of those things was the apparent comfort the Europeans have with their bodies. ...
Be Generous With Your Love- Part II
The second part of "being generous with your love" is to share that love with others. (The first part being giving love to yourself, which I wrote about in my previous blog.)
The more you love yourself, the easier it is to love others and the more you will notice things to love about them.
You will not be jealous of others' good points when you know you have many of your own. You will realize that each person simply has different lovable things that make up who they are. There is no scarcity of loveable traits to go around....
Be Generous With Your Love
I'm talking about two types of generosity here: The first type is generosity toward yourself; the second is generosity toward others.
The most common, perhaps only, root of the "problems" that clients present to me is a lack of self-love. Technically, it's a forgetting of the self-love that we all have. Before we made the choice to come here, we knew who we were. The big cosmic joke is that when we get here we have forgotten who we are: radiant beings with the power of the Universe within us. Our lives, hopefully, become the process of remembering who we are, and expanding our souls as we do.
Clients often ask me how they can learn to love themselves. My two best pieces of advice are these: know yourself, and act like you love yourself....
Selfishness Has a Bad Name
Really, I'm serious. We are all told that being selfish is a bad thing, right? Well, I disagree. I think that if we all started to put ourselves first, the world would be a better place.
You may be thinking: But what about doing things for others? ...
What’s Your “Learning Edge”?
You may or may not have heard this term, "learning edge". I first heard it when I was in life coaching school at The Hendricks Institute, about ten years ago. My definition of it is basically this: the thing that the Universe is presenting to you as your current opportunity for growth.
I have found over the years that it does behoove me to pay attention to what keeps coming up for me. For better or for worse, God/dess does not give up on us. If we don't get the learning the first time, it will continue to be presented in less and less subtle ways, until we get it. I've had some "growth" that felt a bit like being hit over the head with a hammer. These days, I am able to get the learning before it gets to that point....
Squirting 102 (Prerequisite: Squirting 101)
I really have a lot to say about squirting. That's what happens with the topics I love, like blow jobs.
Today I am going to help you find your way around a G-spot.
But first I want to say this:...
Love Is…On The Sheets!
You know how some people are self-taught musicians? Well, I am a self-taught squirter. Never heard of that? Well, I'm coining a new phrase then.
It all started when the man I was dating years ago, in my first quasi-polyamorous relationship, introduced the subject. Unbeknownst to me at the time, one of his other partners was a squirter, and he thought it was pretty cool. So he started showing me porn with women squirting. Prior to that, I had heard of it, but hadn't actually seen any squirting....
Not Just Two, but Three Types of Sacred Union
In the past, I have written about the two types of sacred union: sacred union in the one body, and sacred union in the two bodies. It is my life purpose to learn and teach about sacred union. It was recently revealed to me in a channeling session that there are in fact three types of sacred union....