Do You Feel Guilty for Wanting to Get Yours?

As I have mentioned, I've been talking to a lot of women lately about their sex lives. And do you know what was sad to hear? Some of them feel GUILTY about receiving pleasure, or to be more exact, taking "too much time" to orgasm. I guess it shouldn't be so much of a...

Ladies, Are You Off Your Sensual/Sexual Game?

Lately, I've been interviewing a lot of women on the phone. I needed to find out what was really going on for them in their sexual expression in the world. The more I know, the more I can help! Some of you are loving your yonis and loving your sexual experiences! To...

How to Love Yourself More!

Many people find real self-love elusive. Here is one of the best discoveries I have made about self-love over the years: It's not so much about doing exercises and waiting for that magical moment to happen someday. Acquiring self-love is much more about doing things...

The Truth About Women’s Orgasms

I've got to be honest. The way women's sexuality is depicted in our society really burns me up. Specifically, I'm referring to two popular places people get a "picture" of what to expect. One of them is in the porn industry. And the other, which is what I've been...

Yoni Massage Benefits Just Keep Coming!

Now that I'm home from three weeks in France, I have more time to focus on my self yoni massage practice. I've been home for two days so far, and I've had much more time to do my daily practice. Instead of doing it quickly, like 15 minutes or less, I've been...

What my Husband Thinks About my Yoni Massage Practice

I know I've been a little obsessed with talking about yoni massage lately… it's just so exciting to me that I've realized so many benefits in such a short time! I hope you'll bear with me for one more story (for now, who am I kidding?). Last week, after having sex...

Ladies, Yoni Massage Helps with Self Love!

As you may know, I committed to practicing self yoni massage every day about a week and a half ago. (By the way, I figured out all I have to do to make sure I keep my commitments is to announce to all of you that I'm going to do something. I haven't missed a day, and...

Stress Still Happens on Vacation!

Do you remember being a kid and pretty much (if you were fortunate) being happy all day long whenever it was a holiday, like Halloween, for example? Well, did you ever notice that as an adult, even when it's supposed to be a "special" time, you're not always that...

My True Confession

I just co-hosted a workshop on self lingam massage. And I'm currently making a video series on yoni massage, both self yoni massage and yoni massage with a partner. The other day, I was doing some work on the video series (don't worry, lingam-owning individuals, I...

Have You Had a “One Morning Stand” Yet?

I have a friend who is recently divorced who told me she had a "one morning stand." I asked her, "ummm, what's a one morning stand?" She explained that a one morning stand is a one-time hookup that happens in the morning rather than at night. As you may or may not...