Not Just Two, but Three Types of Sacred Union

In the past, I have written about the two types of sacred union:  sacred union in the one body, and sacred union in the two bodies.  It is my life purpose to learn and teach about sacred union.  It was recently revealed to me in a channeling session that there are in fact three types of sacred union....

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Things You Can See in a Strip Club

Last night, I went to a strip club with  some friends.  They had read my book, "The Naked Truth", and told me they wanted to go to a strip club but were scared to go alone.  So, they twisted my arm ;) and got me to go with them. They found an awesome little "hole in the wall" type of place, the kind of place I used to love to work at.  In fact, I was having fantasies of coming out of retirement just to work there, it looked so fun!  (And, I'm not.)...

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Who We Really Are

Recently, I was at a charity event where there was a local band whose members were from my high school.  There were people there that I literally hadn't seen since I was fourteen years old.  I didn't know how I felt about it, at first.  Normally it is not the kind of thing that I'd attend.  I've always been of the school of thought that says:  "If I'd wanted to see someone, I would have kept in touch."...

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What I’ve Always Wanted

Here's some exciting news:  I've given myself an early Christmas present, and it's just what I've always wanted!  And I didn't even know I was going to give it to myself!  And, for most of my life, I didn't even know I wanted it.  And I do.  Okay, I'll stop being such a tease (it's not my nature, really; generally, I put out ;)).  Here it is- I am in a poly relationship!  (From Wikipedia: Polyamory (from Greek πολύ [poly], meaning "many" or "several", and Latin amor, "love") is the practice, desire, or acceptance of having more than one intimate relationship at a time with the knowledge and consent of everyone involved.)...

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Still on the Self-Compassion Kick

I do want to share with you more of the self-compassion techniques that I referenced in my last blog, "Self-Compassion is the Antidote to Suffering".  As you may have surmised, I was often times in a desperate state during the time period I am now choosing to call my "dark night of the soul".  I had the benefit of having a very dear friend channel for me when I felt like I just couldn't take it anymore and needed some guidance from non-physical....

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Going On and On About Blow Jobs

Recently, in a blog about blow jobs, I made the statement “I could go on and on about blow jobs”.  The good news is, I’ve decided to!  I’d noticed that after I finished the blog, I kept thinking about blow jobs (which, I have to admit I’m prone to doing anyway), and I figured it meant I had more to say about blow jobs.  So here goes....

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I Love

I have been on such an amazing journey since I made the decision to fulfill my life purpose here on the planet.  Many times over the last year and a half, I would have said amazingly horrible journey.  Today I am in a place of saying amazingly perfect.  It all came to a culmination for me last night as I was driving to my friend's house, and sobbing all the way there.  Mostly, they were tears of joy.  With a bit of fear harmonizing in occasionally....

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How to Give a Good Blow Job

Apparently I am feeling very sexual lately; I've noticed that something like my last ten blogs are about vulvas, pleasuring of vulvas, blow jobs, and hand jobs.  Oh, well, I guess I'm on a roll.  Let's talk blow jobs to the point of being an artist- an artist of blow jobs.  (Really, we ought to change the name.   Calling it a "job" gives it a bad rap.)  Below are my personal tips for giving an amazing blow job (for lack of a better term- now taking suggestions of what else to call it)....

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How to Give a Good Hand Job

Hand jobs are a bit of a controversial topic, in a sense.  They are something that I think are often overlooked as a fun choice in a relationship, and I think there are some very good reasons to include them in your repertoire of partner intimacy.  I know, some men think they are not worth it because "they can do it themselves".  Well, I can massage my own feet, too, but I really like it better when someone else does it!...

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What to do With a Vulva

Yes, yes, I know we've had a lot of vulva talk lately and I'm still not done talking about the vulva :).  Today I'm going to list the same seven parts of the vulva and comment on how to pleasure each part, whether that be self-pleasure or partner-pleasure. Before doing that, though, I want to say a few general things....

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