Squirting 101

As in any basic course, I will start at the very beginning.  There have been some (fairly recent!) scientific claims that the G-spot doesn’t exist.  In order to talk about squirting, aka female ejaculation, we must first talk about the G-spot.  Yes, Virginia, there really IS a G-spot, and it squirts!

Let’s make all this confusion about the G-spot a thing of the past.   Wondering whether it exists, how the hell to find it, and all of that- I see it as symptom of the mass consciousness resistance to female sexuality in all its magnificence.  Notice, I am not blaming men for this.  In fact, there is no place for blame in my message.  It’s a simple acknowledgement:  The G-spot, historically known in certain ancient cultures as the “sacred spot”,  and squirting were not always two of the great mysteries of the universe.   And, they have to a large extent become that.  With patriarchy has come the repression of female sexuality.  And with religion-based sexual repression in general has come the repression of male and female sexuality.

Well, get ready world, because women and men are ready to “come out”- so to speak 😉 – into our full magnificence of conscious, sacred sexuality.  And Squirting 101 is part of that!

The G-spot is actually the female prostate plus a bunch of erectile tissue surrounding it.   A woman’s prostate is an elongated organ that is imbedded in the wall of the urethra.  The urethra is the tube through which urine and female ejaculate pass out of a woman’s body.  Female ejaculate, also known as amrita, is produced in the female prostate.  It is a clear, slightly slimy liquid that is virtually odorless and tasteless.  When a woman’s G-spot is stimulated with fingers, sex toys, a penis, or any other handy item you happen to have around the house (kidding….sort of), the ejaculate builds up.  And, just as a woman begins to orgasm, ejaculation may occur.  Just as with men, women can orgasm without ejaculating and ejaculate without having an orgasm, but that is a topic for another time.

Now, for those of you who have been mystified by trying to find a woman’s G-spot, let me make it easy for you:  Place your tongue on the roof of your mouth.  Feel, with the tip of your tongue, the ridges on each side toward the back of the roof of your mouth.  Ridges similar to these are also on a woman’s vaginal wall right in the spot through which her G-spot can be felt.  Some have described it as feeling like corduroy.  If she is lying on her back, her G-spot can be felt with a finger that is facing up toward her abdomen, about one to one and a half inches inside her vagina.  In some women, it will be farther in, but this is rare in my experience.  It was right there all along!  The reason that many women have such a hard time locating their sacred spot is that they expect it to be immediately, highly pleasurable and sensitive.  Sometimes it is.  And sometimes it’s not, for various reasons which I won’t get into in this mini-course.

Some men and women are fearful that ejaculation is urination.  A woman’s ejaculate contains a tiny amount of urine.  And essentially, it’s NOT urine.  Some men do not like women to ejaculate because they think it’s “dirty”, or it’s peeing.  Okay, look guys, can you pee and come at the same time?  Well, neither can she.

All women have the ability to squirt.  Some women have always squirted and assume that’s what happens when all women come.  Other women squirt and don’t know it.  Others don’t squirt, but could given the right information and techniques.

Squirting is part of our birthright as sexual, juicy, connected women. It has the power to enhance women’s pleasure, their relationships with themselves, their partners, and God herself.  You know that expression “nectar of the Gods”?  Yup, they were talking about amrita- no kidding!

 

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