Sex is Not What You Think

Sex is not what you think.  Have you ever really asked yourself the question of what sex is?  Chances are, if you’re like most people, you just assumed it’s what our popular culture says it is.  Either a man/woman, man/man, or woman/woman intertwining their naked bodies and getting it on, right?  On the surface, of course, you’re right.  But it’s so much more than that.

Sex, or S.E.X. is actually Synergistic Energy Exchange.  Synergistic means working together cooperatively.  So S.E.X. is when two (or more) people work together cooperatively to create an exchange of energy.  We’ve been taught that sex must involve the genitals but by this definition that is actually not necessary.  It certainly can, and it doesn’t have to, in order to be considered S.E.X.

Another difference between sex and S.E.X. is that in sex, or in the mainstream world, 1+1= 2.  But in S.E.X. 1+1=47.  Think of it this way.  Imagine that you are a light bulb.  Now imagine that your partner is a light bulb.  Now take away the glass.  When your energies merge during S.E.X. the two lights combine to form a light that is much, much bigger than the light of one bulb combined with the light of another.

And what IS that light that we all have?  That is your God-ness.  So when you engage in S.E.X. you are increasing in your God-ness, you are both drawing closer to Source energy, or God/Goddess/All That Is.  Him/Her/They.  Call it whatever you want.  It’s all the same thing.  And that merging with Source is the reason why S.E.X. feels so good.  And when you reach that point of orgasm, you are completely merged with God and that is why you feel sooooo good.  That is when your two merged lights come together with God’s enormous light and everything in the cosmos aligns.

What we all truly seek is to feel joy and love.  That is our natural state; it is our birthright. And through getting closer to God we achieve that.  The ultimate way to achieve that is through S.E.X. and orgasm.  And by the way, it is possible to learn how to do all of this, achieve that Synergistic Energy Exchange and even orgasm, with all your clothes on and without even touching each other. But that is a story for another blog.

4 Replies to "Sex is Not What You Think "

  • Mayang
    December 17, 2011 (3:09 am)

    Thanks for sharing this insight on S.E.X. and the spiritual experience of the human orgasm. The S.E.X. experience is definitely much more than the physical aspect of it. It is a spiritual and Divine experience when we are in the moment with it. In that moment of orgasmic state, you become one with the human being you are exchanging the energy with and you both become one with the Divine.

    I am looking forward to having more conversation regarding the various ways we can experience S.E.X.

    Thanks for this blog!

    • Maria Merloni
      December 19, 2011 (1:51 am)

      You are very welcome. I see that you have the same understanding of S.E.X. as I do. I think that many people are still seeing it in more mainstream ways, but hopefully through this blog and the work of others in the world, things are starting to change. I look forward to continuing to blog with you and others on these topics!

  • Tony Bogardus
    August 29, 2012 (3:25 am)

    I have an ex-girlfriend that was BIG trouble in my life, on a number of levels….I don’t blame her for all that happened, because I made the choices that led to those troubles, but the fact remains that her impact on my life was overwhelmingly negative. So why did I stay with her for as long as I did? Because the S.E.X. that we had was amazing, teleporting, earth-shattering, and more emotionally fulfilling than any I had had before, or have had since. Interestingly, it wasn’t the best ‘sex’ I’ve ever had – Ali had some limitations on what she was comfortable with that kept the physical part from being as good as it has been with other partners, like my ex-wife. But the emotional, inter-personal, synergistic part? Oh. My. God. When I was inside her, and we were looking into each other’s eyes, and the rest of the world disappeared, it was hands-down the most incredible experience I’ve ever known. Ali had been molested and abused by a lot of men in her life, so when, in the throes of passion, she allowed me ‘in’ to her mind as well as her body, and she saw the love and caring for her in my eyes, she would often begin to cry, as the realization that someone could truly be that passionate about being with her became overwhelming. And I, in turn, was so moved by her appreciation of my love for her, that I was often moved to tears, as well. It all sounds tremendously dysfunctional when I read that back, but I can assure you that, in those moments, we both were getting something that we desperately needed, and that was SO much more than the sum of the parts. We were those two light bulbs, and for all-too-brief moments in time, our light was exponentially brilliant. And on top of everything else, we often reached orgasm either simultaneously, or damned close to it….Typically, she would begin to come, and her convulsions would then trigger my own climax. I don’t believe in ‘God,’ per se, but at those moments, I can tell you I believed in SOMETHING higher! LOL….I hope this isn’t oversharing – it just seemed to fit what this blog was all about…..

    • Maria Merloni
      August 30, 2012 (8:20 pm)

      Well, as you know, there’s no such thing as oversharing in my book! It does not sound dysfunctional to me at all…it sounds beautiful! To me, you perfectly describe the most heightened experience available on the planet. No wonder it was so hard for you to walk away from that one!