Word of the Day: Come
Have you ever wondered just exactly what it means when someone says the word “come”, in reference to having an orgasm?
Actually, let me back up here a minute. You’ve probably noticed I did not spell “come” like this: “cum”. I really don’t like that spelling of it. To me, it cheapens the whole experience and does not describe what is really happening at all.
Also, before I get into what it means, let’s have a review about Who You Really Are. You are a radiant being. You are a grand soul. You are God/dess embodied. Got it? 😉
So here it is: when you “come”, you are “coming” home to yourself, to Who You Really Are. You are becoming one with not only your partner (if you have one, but we all know that is not absolutely necessary) , but with your true Divine essence, and thus with God/dess herself.
Even Abraham has something to say about it. (Many of you may know of Abraham, but for those of you who don’t, Abraham is a non-physical entity, a group of hundreds of souls, that speaks through a woman named Esther Hicks from San Antonio, Texas. She travels the country channeling Abraham to large audiences.) I once heard Abraham say something to this effect: (I’m paraphrasing here) “We don’t know one of you who suffers from low self-esteem at the moment of orgasm.”
Think about that. It’s quite true, isn’t it? That’s because at the moment of orgasm, you are being Who You Really Are. You are feeling the immense joy and love that Spirit is. There’s no room for low-self esteem there. Low self-esteem is of the ego, and the ego is stripped away at that moment.
And that’s why I suggest that you allow yourself to be in the moment of your sexual experiences, in order to recognize the sacredness of the moment. Remember, your sexuality is your spirituality. This can be applied not only to your orgasmic experiences, but also to lovemaking and self-pleasuring in general.